“I need to trust that you’ll never hurt me!”
she said in a trembling voice…
Well good luck, baby!
Trusting that someone will Never hurt us
does nothing more then give us license
to play the victim card
and indulge in both self pity as well as resentment.
It could be BETTER to say,
“I trust that you’ll never deliberately choose to hurt me
and that when you do hurt me
you’ll be enthusiastic to both comfort me
as well as learn from your errors.”
But it could be BEST to say,
“Do I want us to have a sorrow free relationship?
Ya, sure, Ya bet’cha!
But do I know that will happen?
Not at all!
So I choose to be a considerate partner,
with a great learning curve,
and I’m setting space for you to choose likewise.
No gimme a hug… it’s cuddle time!”
It’s true, into each life {and each relationship} some rain DOES fall.
So when it rains Unpleasant:
• circumstances,
• physical-sensations,
• emotional-feelings,
• recollections,
• fantasies or
• conundrums
be sure to Tame each of those sufferings
with the two Bodhichittas .
You could register today .
May you and yours be
happy and healthy!
Om Mani Padme Hum,
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